Every one of the letters of love to her adult daughters in Jump and The Joy Will Follow is uncommon, because the author, Linda Nacif led a very uncommon life. However, the letter on sex with its subsequent explanation is a blueprint of advice that any mother can offer to her daughter, regardless of how experienced or inexperienced she is.
What makes the wedding unique isn?t only because it was in a fishing village in the Yucatan nor the ceremony to the Mayan gods, but the fact that there was a hurricane warning. And what makes the advice so special is that Nacif compares the hurricane to making love. "Sex packs a lot of power like a great storm?it drives us, it lights us up?but only our constant stream of communication keeps us on the safe side of that power?like a hurricane it is unpredictable and can change intensity from one minute to the next?"
Mother?s Day
Uncommon is Nacif?s advice because it is so down to earth and so honest. Uncommon because it is filled with common sense. And uncommon because it is truly unconditional, honest, yet gentle and loving. She reframes sex as she reframes beauty and aging in this exceptional and heart felt book. For example, the author tells her daughter that sex is about freedom: freedom to delight in her body?freedom to say no so that her yes has more value; freedom to be tender and demanding, passive and proactive, conservative and adventurous?She adds a thought provoking list of everything sex is not?but can be. Both her candor and love for her daughter on her wedding day will delight you and possibly even make you cry, and wish your mother had spoken to you in the same way.
We recommend Jump and The Joy Will Follow not only for the bride to be, but for her mother also since it addresses important and rarely talked about issues of mature sex. Nacif emphasizes that good sex is ageless and has everything to do with giving and receiving pleasure and nothing to do with age AND that a woman?s sex drive changes very little over the years. At the same time Ms. Nacif shares some of her personal stories and experiences along with great empowering sex tips for both mother and daughter. Hence, making this book, a perfect gift for Mother?s Day: uncommon advice, uncommon love, uncommon conversation between mother and daughter.
Daughter?s marriage is most awaited and the most excited moment for every mother?s life. Marriage brings about some extreme changes in girl?s life about which she is totally unfamiliar. Along with blessings and good wishes, mother wishes to give her some useful tips that can help her lead a happy married life. Advice given by the mother to her daughter for household work, temper tantrums, romantic dinners etc is very common. But moms can also advise their daughters or give them ideas in order to maintain passion in their married lives even from the first night after the wedding.
The information about mother?s wedding night tips to her daughter can be obtained in the book ?Jump and the Joy Will Follow? written by Linda Nacif, in which the author has described it in a very gentle language. Linda gives some useful tips about sex and how to go about the wedding night to her daughter in a simple and lucid way. There is a general assumption that every groom and bride should enjoy wonderful, passionate sex on their wedding nights. However, this isn?t always the case. Mothers can help daughters overcome many emotional and physical barriers that might come up on the wedding nights. After all, only mothers can understand how their daughters feel on their first night.
Sex is like a Hurricane and it packs a lot of power. It brings a great joy and excitement and makes the life thrilling and cheerful. But, it can also bring deep shadows of pain and chaos. Our constant stream of communication can help us to overcome this problem. Mother can play an important role to prepare her daughter for wedding night. If mothers want to know about how to talk with their daughters, they can always read ?Jump and the Joy Will Follow? which is a very nicely written book by Linda Nacif.
The advice gained from mother is certainly very helpful for the daughter. Mother shares her secrets and experience with her daughter for her very special day. Mother tells to take the things slowly on wedding night as bride and groom may be very tired. The expectations about wedding night should be limited. Mother tells her daughter not to expect the most amazing sex and try to enjoy whatever happens.
According to some mothers, reading sex books is the best way to know better about the wedding night. They can guide you about how to make your wedding night a pleasant and memorable one. Mother also advices her daughter to stay calm and relaxed and talk about the wedding and express your love for each other. The sex followed by naughty and romantic conversations will surely prove to be an amazing experience. Mothers can help daughter expand her ideal of wedding night. Flirting with each other during the wedding ceremony can help to relax and build excitement.
Moms can tell their daughters about what exactly to wear on her wedding night to excite her groom. Wedding night lingerie can help to keep the romantic mood. Try something new as your wedding night can be full of experiments. Create the romantic atmosphere by lighting the candles, bringing radio or CDs or scattering rose petals or whatever you wish. By giving out these amazing yet uncommon tips about sex and romance, a mother can help her daughter make her wedding night most memorable. All these things are effectively described in Linda Nacif?s book ?Jump and the Joy Will Follow?. This wonderful book also provides information about other topics and offers effective solutions on management of stress, menopause, nutrition and exercise in the form of letter narrations that are addressed to Linda?s own daughter.
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